Pros of dating older men
Some of the other reasons commonly cited for women dating older men is that they are better in bed, more chivalrous, have better apartments, more ready to have children, are patient, and more assertive.
But none of these “pros” of dating older men necessarily hold up.
You Tango phrased it a bit more nicely by saying “women choose men who offer resources and stability.”Don’t believe money has something to do with it?
Just consider what this study found: This doesn’t mean you should assume that every woman dating an older man is a gold digger.
Hence, the phrase “men get better with age.” We won’t talk about what happens to women as they age here…Today, men don’t have to go out and hunt food. So, the “security” that women seek is mostly thought to mean money.
Sorry, but the sad truth is that women are attracted to wealth.
Or maybe they are scared of dating women their age after being out of the game so long…You may need to start skipping the traditional Thursday through Sunday bar scene with the girls to appease his lifestyle.While this may seem like a much-needed break, there is potential for you to end up at a home-dinner party socializing with a group that may tell you about their son or daughter that is “just about your age.” Awkward. Dating someone 20 to 30 years older than you means you’re probably going to see time take its toll in many ways.That’s hardly reflects the increasing age gap preference! As Psychology Today points out, women today have more career choices and are getting closer to equal pay, which means they are feeling less pressured to get married in order to achieve stability.The increase use of fertility treatments also probably has something to do with it too, since women don’t feel as pressured by the tick-tock of their biological clocks to have children. It might have to do with the fact that many divorced men have children and alimonies to pay, something which younger women might tolerate better than a woman in the man’s own age bracket.